As Bob Bowman, Phelps’ coach of 15 years looked on, he was amazed. “He got in the warm-down pool and started swimming and really within about five minutes he gathered his composure and was ready to go.”
From there, it was time for the medal ceremony, where the 20 year-old first-time Gold Medal winner Chad le Clos waited. It was fitting, in a way, that he was the one standing atop the podium. As a 12-year-old boy, le Clos had watched Phelps swim at the 2004 Games in Athens and decided he wanted to become a swimmer. Four years later, when Phelps out-touched Milorad Cavic by one-hundredth of a second to win gold in the 100 butterfly in Beijing, it was le Clos who looked on in awe and would later put seven copies of the swim on his computer in multiple languages.
He said he is Phelps’ biggest fan and beating him Tuesday night was “the greatest moment of my life.”
One man’s nightmare was another man’s dream. Phelps could sense how excited le Clos was. And as the two stood on the podium, a smile cracked on Phelps’ face. And as he and le Clos walked around the pool deck and posed for pictures, Phelps smiled more. He told the 20-year-old how to hold the gold medal when posing for pictures, and then he gave him directions on where to go after the medal parade.
The younger Phelps never would have done that. He would have stewed over the bitter loss and carried it with him for weeks. But, with seemingly everything at stake, Phelps turned his emotions around with one warm-down swim.
“The way he handled that silver medal tonight, I think I’m prouder of that one than any of the other ones,” Bowman said. “Just the whole thing showed how he has matured and how he understands what this entire process is all about.”
An hour after his disappointment in the 200 fly, Phelps was back on the pool deck again, anchoring his team in the 4×200 free relay. He told his fellow teammates — Ryan Lochte, Conor Dwyer and Ricky Berens — to get him a big lead.
They did just that. By the time Phelps came down the pool with 25 meters to go, the outcome was certain. And for the first time in his career, Phelps said he smiled in the middle of competition.
“I knew we had done it,” he said. When he touched the wall, he spit a stream of water straight into the air. He knew. His teammates knew. Everyone knew. It was his 19th career Olympic medal.
I’ve been studying the behaviors, strategies and tactics of elite performers for years. It all comes down to the subtle signals they attend to both in the environment and who they know themselves to be on a deeper level.
How is it possible for Phelps to move through the roller coaster ride of his daunting experience, and stay focused, compassionate, and remain fiercely competitive?
I think the Samurai have a word for it. Bushido. Allowing the violent existence of the samurai to be tempered by wisdom and serenity.
Many elite performers, the Samurai of our age, use hypnosis to improve their performance edge, they may not call it hypnosis, but as Shakespeare ‘s Juliet says, “What’s in a name? that which we call a rose, by any other name would smell as sweet”
If you are Interested in the performance edge, and still want to maintain your balance and integrity, read on